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deathI have helped many people and gave healing, but is hard when you know that someone is going to die, they ask for a reading. What do you do, lie to them and make somethink up or say you are to bizzy or tell them the truth and make the most of the time left and say goodbye to there kids.
When you know that someone needs help and won't listern to you and six months later, then does and is to late. This has happened twice before and is happening again. Sometimes i hate knowing and wish i could do more.
The thing is, it's hard to talk about it as you don't want there family finding out from over people who you may tell, as it's not a nice way to find out.
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Mandatas
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Oh thats a real tough one Alan! I guess someone has asked you recently for a reading and the reading is not good??? I'm not sure I have the answer to be honest, I think it depends how well you know the person.
I personally would want to know if that was the case, so that I could do everything I wanted to and make the most of my time left, but others may not.
How well do you know this person?
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marie
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I personally would not tell them,let nature take its course.
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Mandatas
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Would you want to be told yourself marie, so you can plan stuff?
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marie
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I would want to be told that I was going to die,so I can prepare loved ones.Then I'll have as much fun as possible.and then go out in style.
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Mandatas
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So would I, I would do all the things I often think about doing.
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alan
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I,ve knowen this person for 25 years
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Mandatas
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Oh blimey!!!!! How do they feel about the spirit world and stuff? Do they believe, because that would be easier to deal with if they did?
How long have they got?
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alan
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I'll trying to make it as easy as i can as i did for Ken and Lynn Chapman, but when it's there time to go, there is nothing you can do to stop it
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Mandatas
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No thats very true. I wish you well and I know you will find the right words to do it. You will know when the time is right to say something, if you are not sure, hold fire and say nothing until you are sure!
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alan
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I can think about it all night and get no answers, but it does come to me when i need it, i get guided by the saints and they have never let me down yet.
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Mandatas
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Good, listen to what they say and they will know when the time is right!
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alan
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One of the rules of doing readings, you never give a bad reading.
Someone comes to you for help because they are troubled, you can't say to them, sorry i can't because your going to die.
If you know when, all you can do is be there for them and make it as easy as posible when the time comes for them and they family.
I,ve found that it helps the family if they know were there loved one is going and who has come for them, knowing that they have not pasted on there own goes a long way and brings comfort.
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Mandatas
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Very true Alan, I hope everything worked out ok on this one!
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